This post is for all the men out there who get nervous.
I met a girl poolside in Chiang Mai, Thailand and when I explained to her what I do, well, we delved into dating and attraction. She had some interesting views on the subject.
She admitted doesn't date because she's exhausted from being valued only for her looks. Which I know is true (she's beautiful and men are lazy).
She also mentioned to me that one thing women die for is being charmed. They love when a man does something out of the ordinary, something honest yet courageous for them. Why? It makes them feel desired on a deep level.
Here's an example of how to do that in real life.